”But using the present Iran/Israel crisis as an example: no government wants to ‘lose face’, either to rival states nor to their own electorates. So both sides are compelled to retaliate and thus escalate.”
If I dare raise my head above the parapet for a moment, it looks as if Th. Moore’s example is showing the opposite to his conclusion. Two states in conflict can both save face and so avoid war if they don’t want one (as neither they or anyone else want).
I could be wrong of course. We’ll see.