Hi Johan,
I relate to you. What you experienced from your supervisor is sad. The idea that any form of care is a burden to the state is so wrong.
Rod is right: in socialism, this would not even matter, and your decision would be a matter of choice- and all would support it.
Ableism (that is discrimination on ability over disability) is not acceptable.
When society calls we who have ‘disability’ (be it physical or mental health) a burden- it really hurts. We have so much to contribute: and your question to your supervisor is testament to your pro-social kindness.
like rodshaw said: it will not go bankrupt. And yes money decisions do impact governments.
I really support whatever decision you make- as that is the social thing to do. There are so many people I know who would relate to your post- and stand by your choices- through all it entails!
Be safe,
L.B.